Ah... alright. [Cilan seems to understand that this must be a serious thing to talk about, so he'll allow Red to lead wherever he wants that he would be more comfortable going to talk.

However, he will add this--]

You don't have to tell me about it if you don't want to, okay? If it makes you uncomfortable talking about it, then I'll understand.

[Sure, he'll be worried wondering who is at this party that would make Red not want to be there, but he also doesn't want Red to feel like he's being pressured into talking here.]